Monday, February 7, 2011

Books with Graphic Organizers

Great books to use with kids. Teaches them key concepts and the use of graphic organizers.

All by Power Kids Press.

Books available:

Water Cycle
Learning with Simple Machines
America's Colonial Period
American Revolution
Weather
Rocks, Weathering, & Erosion
Movement of the Sun and other Stars
Learning about Plant Growth
Settlment of the Americas
Life in the New American Nation

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Salem Falls

by

Jodi Picoult

I love Jodi Piocoult and have read many of her books. This one is scary though because it shows how kids can cause problems with adults by lying because many people will believe them anyway. This book made me think of the Salem Witch Trials, and I think it was supposed to since the author chose the title Salem Falls.

Jack St. Bride teaches at an all girls' school and is the soccer coach. Then the father of his star player accuses him of sexual misconduct. He is sure that it is a mistake and that he will be cleared, but he is sentenced and goes to jail.

Now released from jail, he has no where to go. He wanders until he sees a job as a dish washer in Salem Falls. He takes the job and is rebuilding his life. Until a coven of witches targets him, and the lies begin.

Quotes I like:

"It came over Gilly so quick sometimes: the feeling that she was going to explode, that she was too big for her own skin, as if anger had swelled so far and fast inside her that it choked the back of her throat. Sometimes it made her want to put her fist through glass; other times, it made her cry a river. It was not something she could talk about with her friends, because she might be the only freak that felt that way."

"Words were like eggs dropped from great heights: you could no more call them back then ignore the mess they left when they fell."

"He could drink an ocean and never dissolve the pride that was stuck in his throat."

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Meet Carrie Before Sex and the City

by Candace Bushnell

The story of Carrie Bradshaw as a small town girl who ends up as the confident woman portrayed in Sex in the City.

Quotes I liked:

"I try no to give him much thought, but alphabetically, my last name comes right before Tommy's, so I'm stuck with the locker next to his, stuck sitting next to him in class and at assembly, and therefore basically stuck seeing him- every day." (They may end up married. Chilson and Fenton did, and they started for basically the same reason.)

"There could be an actual person inside Cynthia, but if there is, I've never seen it."

"Changing. It's hard to pull off in this little town." (aint that the truth!)

"A little kid, so ugly she was cute, asked me once: What if I'm a princess on another planet? And no one on this planet knows it? That question still kind of blows me away. I mean, isn't it the truth? Whoever we are here, we might be princesses, somewhere else. Or writers. Or scientists. Or Presidents. Or whateer the hell we want to be that everyone else says we can't."

"Rule number 1: Why is it that the one time a cute guy talks to you, you have a friend who is in crisis? Ruler number 2: Humiliated best friend always takes precedence over cute guys."

"Magwitch, you can't let what other people say affect you so much." I know this isn't helpful, but my father says it all the time and it's the only thing I can think of at the moment."

Thursday, February 3, 2011

The Mother Daughter Book Club

Heather Vogel Frederick

This was a very cute book. A group of mothers at yoga decide to start a book club for their daughters and selves. The girls don't really get along that well, but there's no stopping determined mothers. The group is reading Little Women, so eventually they all begin to wonder: 'What would Jo March do?'

Quotes I liked:

'Once upon a time, there were four girls, who had enough to eat and drink and wear, a good many comforts and pleasures, kind friends and parents, who loved them dearly, and yet they were not contented."- Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

"Preserve your memories, keep them well;what you forget, you can never retell."

"Mothers may differ in their management, but the hope is the same in all- the desire to see their children happy."

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Fury

Koren Zailckas

I thought this was a work of fiction when I picked it up. It was really the author's memoirs as she confronts the issue of anger in others (without admitting she herself has any) which she is researching for her new book, a follow up to the book Smashed. This was heavy reading, and not for the faint-hearted. If I didn't have a lot of repressed anger myself, I would have put it back on the shelf."

Quotes I like:

'Cholerophobia is a defense mechanism created by the unconscious mind. At some point in the cholerophobe's past, there was an event linking anger to emotional trauma. Avoiding the emotion meant living in fear; missing out on life experiences big and small and living a life that is only a shadow of what it might be.'

'A bad girl has never been born, only persons with potentials are born. Something in that human being has to be denied, projected, ignored or distorted for her to become some kind of bad, sick, stupid, or crazy girl/woman."

'The self-abuse in my head is loud too. I'm recounting, martyrly, any nasty comment any one's ever directed my way, trying to figure out precisely which character flaw might be responsible for my latest life failure.'

'I wanted to go back to bright ignorance and ridiculous optimism, where people blessed me when I sneezed and told me to have a great day and were nice to me and meant it."

'I'm great at repressing anger by indulging guilt in its place. Many women cultivate guilt in order to blot out the awareness of our own anger. Anger and guilt are just about incompatible."

'Another powerful method for overcoming anger and the wish to retaliate is to see all undesirable situations as a reflection of our own faults and shortcomings. If someone insults us , we can remember the teachings on karma and think, "I wouldn't be suffering this harm now if I had not insulted someone in my past." Guilt is far easier to tap into than rage.

"Curling into my childhood bed feels like regression. All my life I've avoided relying on others or, even more, asking for help. I've thought of myself as self-contained, self-supporting, freewheeling, nonaligned. I'd give anything to be somewhere where I might crumple without anyone seeing."

"People keep telling me to vent and write down my feelings and get it all out. Try as I might, I can't seem to write more than lists of books I'm reading, snippets of print I see, and free floating quotations." (that's me)

"When he berated me and told me what a worthless employee I was, I wished I could have told him what I really think. I would have loved to call him a blading, ugly, fascist prick, to tell him that he ran the place like a Nazi death camp!"

"The need to be liked is a Spke 3 personality profile according to the MN Multiphasic Personality Inventory- (look up more about this).

"Depression is anger without enthusiasm."

"..angry? I'm much more a woman subdued."

"I see in him the things I hate in me. He seems too hungry for affection, too eager to win approval of others. He seems too sentimental, too thin-skinned, too vulnerable to criticism and attached to his loneliness. Most of all, too reluctant to stand up for himself."

Note to self: Look up homeopathy
staph is a remedy for the person w/ poor image from a past hurt and suppressed anger

"Human beings seem willing to pay whatever price is necessary to feel loved, to belong, to make sense, and to feel as if they matter, even if the price exacted doesn't really accomplish that."

"Good things best flourish in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible. When people don't feel micro manged."

"When a person has developed the art of blocking their feelings, if they feel at risk of losing approval or respect, or of being punished, they will repress their emotions. They cannot even experience them secretly, they will fail to experience them at all. They will however stay in the body, in the cells, stored up as info that can be triggered by a later event."

"A good scapegoat is nearly as welcome as a solution to the problem.' (that's me)

"To find your voice gargle w/ salt water, do fish/plough pose, shoulder stands, meditate and envision a turquoise sunburst, sing, hum, chant ham, make noise, scream, crate vibration, from sound comes communication the main point of the throat chakra. The throat is connected to our idea of who we are. It's the place where the affairs of the mind meed the feeling of the body. It describes our experiences. It's the source of art and creativity."

"The word no has to be in your vocabulary. You can't placate, abide violence, or absorb every body's blame, because that would make you a broken warrior who is no good to anyone."

Story of Sadhu and the snake. A village was terrorized by a huge snake. The sadhu sat the snake down and taught him about non violence. Then a year later the snake was shriveled, bruised, and skinny. He was not respected. When the Sadhu asked him why the same said, because you told me not to bite. Yes, but I didn't tell you not to hiss."

"When a person is taught to repress anger and outrage at things done to them, they will not protect themselves. Teach your children to express their anger and that it is ok to say it out loud."

"Be honest. Be authentic. Express what you're feeling regardless of whether the voice on the other end of the line negates or affirms your out pour."

"The first place anger reveals itself is in the skin. An angry rash is like a check engine light coming on-it's your body's way of drawing attention to what it needs/wants. You to deal with your feelings."

"I should have handled it in a more professional way. I could have done it better. - You think you haven't handled anger well enough? You want to bring Little Miss Perfect into it? I know you're rewording over and over what you wish you had said to this jerk. -She isn't wrong. For days I've been rewriting the scene in my imagination. I've been obsessing over it. I keep trying to think of something else I might have said- a better way I might have staged my threats, a more articulate way I might have formed my insults. This compulsive self-editing is the same reason I made such slow progress on my anger book for so long. When it comes to emotion, I am still too selective and stingy about it."